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Sunday, December 28, 2008

Tagged #1 : Musing on Innocent Affiliations

I was tagged by a dear friend, Peed (soon to be Mrs. Afidah. yieha) about a month ago and boy, now is a suitable time to do this as we've entered a new year and maybe answering these tag questions would bring me down the emotional circuits, as a remembrance of the dramas throughout the year of 2008. So here goes;

1.If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
- Since I was small, I've watched streotyped movies where the heroin went all berserk when she found out about her mate's infidelity. So sometimes she would stalk her mate's moves, and when she got the opportunity, she'd attack the girl whose her mate was seeing and did some bitchy talking here and there. It's totally embarassing fighting over a moron like that. I remember saying to myself that I would never, ever do things like that. If you find out your lover betrays you, try to look for solid proof, and then what else? 'It's been a surreal experience being with you. Have a nice day.'

2. If you can have a dream to come true, what would it be?
- Not to worry about anything. ANYTHING.

3. Whose butt would you like to kick?
- Aiye. Maybe my dear buddy Cash 'cos he forgot to pick my free gift up at the counter. That gift was worth of RM250! Arrrgh!

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
- It's not possible. No way. I mean, the possibility of me getting married to someone who is a billionnaire. Hmm. U uh. Beyond anybody's wildest dream. But let's just say it happens, come and see me. I'd treat you dinner. Auw!

5. Will you fall in love with your bestfriend??
- Back in 1994, I was this close (am showing the small gap between my thumb and forefinger)to really, really like my bestfriend. Then, out of nowhere, after he told me he liked me, I acted out, pretending to be such a big head over it, and our 'thing' just ended. Mind you, we hadn't even started on anyhing yet. So, I guess my answer would be, nope.

6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
- Don't you think it is supposed to be interconnected. Always. I mean it would be alot sweeter and hopelessly romantic if you are loved by someone that you yourself love to death, right? But of 'cos, being blessed of a cutey little thing called love is a wonder already.

7. Are you gorgeous?
- Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder right? In my own eyes, I have plenty of upgrading to do. But of' cos, I am gorgeous alright. Ha ha. (Note: 'Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. ~Eleanor Roosevelt')

8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
- O boy. Here's the thing. I do like someone who is heavily attached and does that jeopardize our friendship? Hell no. It's my very own secret right. Secret stays you see. I guess I just have to deal with it. Real soon. Ha ha

9. What do you pray each day for your loved one?
- Be happy always. Among other things.

10. What takes you down the fastest?
- Last I checked, I was turned off by a egotistical figure. So yeah. Off you go.

11. How would you see yourself in ten years time?
- Maybe I have some real money(interest free) stocked away. For emergency, health-covered cases, stuffs like that. And pretty much I'd know better about how the world works.

12. What do you really want at the moment of responding to this tag?
- Honestly? Hmm. Stucked in my comfy bed, day-dreaming about dreams. (mind you am not that good with tag Qs)

13. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
- Peed? Well right now I am sure she's very very happy for she's just got engaged with her boyfriend. Sweet girl with many things planned out before her. I can't wait to see you on the pelamin la, nyah.

14. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor?
- What's the real definition of being rich or being poor for that matter? For me, of 'cos being able to stand up for your wants and needs is more important. No matter whether you're single or married.

15. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up?
- Grab my phone/watch to look at the time.

16. What’s the character must have in your partner?
- Gees. There are many characters that I look for in a mate. But first and foremost would be; He can get along with my parents. I'm the only child so, go figure.

17. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick?
- Hmm. Let see. Maybe I'll jump into question number 16. You knoe, like comparing which one is better off when we leave him talking and yakking with the elders. Any orang tua that is.

18. Would you forgive and forget no matter how horrible a thing the someone has done?
- While many people claim to be able to forgive and forget, there is the one little curse which hangs over our heads called memory which constantly reminds us. It's like we want to forget, but there would always be there, clinging to us, right? So, whenever certain elements line up, of the egregiousness in question which brings back all those horrific feelings. What I am saying is that, I would forgive, but I can never forget. Ever.

19. Do you prefer being single or having a relationship?
- Well, if the relationship is a major headache, then of 'cos it's better to be totally free, with no strings attached. But don't tell anyone, maybe in some ways I do find it quite refreshing to be on our own once in a blue moon.

20. Would you leave your family behind just to chase your dreams?
- Are you kidding me? What kind of a dream that requires you to abandon love and affection? Family is everything, no matter how 'big' you are.

So there. Phew.

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